To Reason Amongst Ignorance Part 2

After observing how some other parents treat their children I have come to the profound understanding that some parents have become selfish and lazy. However, I still think there are many roles that play a part in why some parents have that kind of attitude. While doing an evaluation I have come up with five main theories on why these parents do the things they do. 

1. How they were raised
2. Eager for Companionship
3. Influenced by Peers and Age
4. Drug Influence
5. Not Self Structured

I feel like these play a major role in the parents that are raising children today. Not all are like this but the majority is and it's sad. If you were raised to be a certain way at least 65-70% of the time you will follow in your parent or guardians footsteps. It's what your teacher has instilled in you that will determine the outcome. If you were instilled negativity then that is what will most likely come out. However, if you were taught positivity you have a better chance to grow with a better outlook on life. Another part that determines this is what the decisions to your choices will be. Nowadays single mothers are so eager for companionship that they put aside the more important things for a man. This sometimes includes their children. They are not self motivated enough to raise their children on their own. The are not independent but dependent on companionship no matter if the man is doing anything for them or not. Woman today set their standards so low that when they get a man with low standards they become disappointed. Not enough to say they want a man and not a little boy. Not all men are perfect but sometimes we as woman settle for less a little too often. Younger single mothers today are still in the teenage mindset and have not fully matured to take care of the responsibilities of parenthood. They are inspired by their peers to still live the young teen life, putting aside their children for too often celebrated fun. It's okay to go out every now and then but we have to learn our boundaries and how to put important things first. A lot of our youth are on drugs and that speaks for itself. Drugs makes you forget altogether what your priorities are and allow room for continuing procrastination and no progress. The most detrimental fault of young single mothers is not having any self structure or self motivation. When you can motivate yourself, you are more likely to get things done and will have less worries about the future because of a lack of security. Motivation is best lived by self and best experienced through achievements.